Who do you trust? What makes you secure? Two answers exist: the truth and whatever it is you tell everyone else. Rare is the person for whom both answers are the same. Dishonesty is the number one killer of all relationships. Without trust, you have nothing. Without honesty, you have nothing real. Don't go through life walking on eggshells and trying to be nice to everyone. While it is good to be kind, it is just as good to be honest. Don't be afraid to use the thundering velvet voice to correct those who need correction.